Big Bear Elopement Guide 2025: Everything You Need to Know

Planning a Big Bear elopement? You’ve come to the right place! Big Bear is one of the best spots in Southern California for couples who love the outdoors and want to skip the traditional wedding scene. Whether you’re after a cozy winter cabin elopement or a summer mountain adventure, Big Bear has something for every season. In this guide, I’ll cover everything you need to know to make your Big Bear Lake elopement stress-free and unforgettable.

Table of Contents

• Where is Big Bear?
• How to Elope in Big Bear
• Where to Elope in Big Bear
  • Big Bear Lake
  • Castle Rock Trail
  • Boulder Bay Park
  • Grout Bay Picnic Area
  • Cabin Rentals
• Best Time of Year to Elope in Big Bear
• How to Legally Get Married to Elope in Big Bear
• Big Bear Elopement Activities
• Big Bear Vendors
• Where to Stay for Your Big Bear Elopement
• Big Bear Elopement Packages
• Big Bear Elopement Timeline Samples
• FAQs for Eloping in Big Bear
• Final Tips for Eloping in Big Bear

Where is Big Bear?

Big Bear is located in the San Bernardino Mountains of Southern California, about 100 miles northeast of Los Angeles. This small town sits at about 6,700 feet in elevation and is centered around the beautiful Big Bear Lake. Known for its ski resorts and scenic hikes, Big Bear is a year-round outdoor playground. Whether you’re into snowboarding, hiking, or just relaxing by the lake, it’s the perfect place for outdoorsy couples to say “I do.”

Closest Major Cities/Towns

• Los Angeles: About 2 hours from Big Bear, Los Angeles is known as the entertainment capital of the world, famous for Hollywood, diverse culture, and its iconic beaches, offering endless things to see and do.
• Palm Springs: Located 2 to 3 hours from Big Bear, Palm Springs is a desert oasis renowned for its luxurious resorts, hot springs, golf courses, and vibrant mid-century modern architecture, attracting visitors looking for a mix of relaxation and style.
• San Diego: Around 3 hours from Big Bear, San Diego is celebrated for its perfect year-round weather, stunning beaches, and top attractions like the San Diego Zoo and Balboa Park, making it a favorite destination for both locals and tourists.
• San Bernadino: Just 1 hour from Big Bear, San Bernardino is home to the original McDonald’s site.

If you’re driving during the winter, don’t forget the snow chains! Big Bear can get heavy snow, and there are chain inspection points. Driving without them can lead to a fine, so stay prepared. I always check this link for road updates when I head to Big Bear, especially in the colder months.

Closest Airports

If you’re flying in for your Big Bear elopement, the closest airport is Ontario International Airport, about 1.5-2 hours from Big Bear. It’s easy to rent a car from there and drive up the mountain. Other airports to consider are:

• Ontario International Airport [major airport with cheaper and more flight options]
  • 1.5-2 hours from Big Bear
• Palm Springs International
  • 2-3 hours from Big Bear
• Los Angeles International, LAX [major airport with cheaper and more flight options]
  • 3-4 hours from Big Bear
• John Wayne Airport
  • 2-3 hours away from Big Bear

How to Elope in Big Bear

So, you’ve decided to elope in Big Bear. Awesome! Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you get started.

1. Choose a Date
   • Choosing the right season can make or break your elopement plans, especially in a place like Big Bear with its varied weather. I’ll break down the best times to elope later in this guide.
2. Book Your Elopement Photographer
   • Having a photographer who knows Big Bear well can make a huge difference in how smoothly your elopement day goes. As a photographer who’s familiar with the area and loves working with adventurous couples, I’ll help you find the best spots, handle any unexpected weather, and capture the moments that matter most. Get in touch with me here to start planning your Big Bear elopement!
3. Pick a Location
   • Big Bear has some amazing spots for elopements, whether you want a lakeside ceremony, a mountaintop view, or a cozy cabin. I’ve listed some of my favorite places below.
4. Hire Vendors
   • From florists to officiants, you’ll want to lock in your vendors early, especially during peak seasons like summer and winter. I can also recommend some amazing local vendors if you need help.
5. Book Lodging
   • One of the perks of eloping in Big Bear is the variety of charming cabins, lakeside vacation rentals, and cozy hotels available. Whether you want a private cabin for just the two of you or a larger space to invite a few close friends and family, Big Bear has plenty of options. Make sure to book early, especially if you’re eloping in the busy summer or winter months. Airbnb and Vrbo offer a range of options, but you can also check out local lodges for something more rustic.
6. Apply for a Marriage License
   • You’ll need to pick up a marriage license before your elopement. The closest County Clerk’s office is in San Bernardino, and you can visit their website for more information. It costs $89, and you’ll want to schedule an appointment in advance.

Where to Elope in Big Bear

There’s no shortage of beautiful spots for a Big Bear Lake elopement! Whether you’re looking for panoramic mountain views, lakeside settings, or forested hideaways, Big Bear has it all. Some of my favorite spots include:

Best Time of Year to Elope in Big Bear

How to Legally Get Married to Elope in Big Bear

How to Get a Marriage License

Before your Big Bear elopement, you’ll need to pick up a marriage license. Here’s how to get your marriage license in California:

1. Visit the County Clerk’s Office
   • The closest County Clerk’s office is located in San Bernardino. The address is 222 West Hospitality Lane, San Bernardino, CA 92415. They’re open Monday to Friday from 8am to 5pm, and you’ll need to show up together.
2. Bring Valid Identification
   • Both of you will need to bring valid ID, like a driver’s license, passport, or military ID. You’ll present these when you apply, and since both parties have to be present to sign the paperwork, make sure you plan a trip together to the office.
3. Complete the Application
   • Once you arrive, you’ll fill out the marriage license application. The form is pretty simple, and the staff there can assist you if you have any questions along the way.
4. Pay the Fee
   • In San Bernardino County, the cost for a marriage license is $89. Be sure to bring a payment method with you. While many offices accept cash, credit, or debit, it’s a good idea to confirm what’s accepted beforehand.
5. Receive Your Marriage License
   • Once the application is complete and the fee is paid, you’re good to go! You’ll leave with your marriage license, which is valid for 90 days from the date of issue.
6. Have a Witness and Officiant
   • For your ceremony, California requires at least one witness. The officiant and your witness(es) will need to sign the license after the ceremony. If you don’t have a witness, I can help you find one! And since I’m an ordained officiant, I can also perform your ceremony if needed.

Permits for a Big Bear Elopement

As of now, Big Bear doesn’t require a permit for elopements, which makes planning super easy. However, it’s always good to check with local authorities in case that changes.

Big Bear Elopement Activities

One of the best things about a Big Bear elopement is all the fun stuff you can do before and after your ceremony. Whether you’re adventurers or just want to relax, here are a few ideas:

• Hike along Big Bear’s scenic trails
• Rent a kayak or paddleboard on Big Bear Lake
• Go off-roading in a 4×4 through rugged terrain
• Take a helicopter tour for breathtaking mountain views
• Jet ski across Big Bear Lake
• Take a horseback riding tour
• Hire a private chef
• Zipline through the trees
• Ride the Alpine Slide at Magic Mountain
• Ski or snowboard at Snow Summit or Bear Mountain
• Go snow tubing down the winter slopes
• Ride the Scenic Sky Chair for panoramic views of the San Bernardino National Forest

Big Bear Wedding Vendors

Where to Stay for Your Big Bear Elopement

Campgrounds

Hotels/Lodges

Airbnbs

Big Bear Elopement Packages

I offer personalized Big Bear elopement packages to help you create the best elopement experience.

Big Bear elopement packages starting at $5200:

• 4 hours to 1.5 days of adventuring through Big Bear
• Custom location research
• Personalized elopement timeline
• Vendor/activity suggestions
• High-quality, edited digital images
• Private online gallery with printing rights
• Sneak peeks delivered within 72 hours
• Photographer travel expenses included

Big Bear Elopement Timeline Samples

8-Hour Big Bear Elopement Timeline

1:00 PM – Getting Ready

• Begin your day with relaxed, candid shots while you’re getting ready. I’ll capture the small details—your attire, rings, and any special moments with your partner.

2:30 PM – First Look

• Meet your partner for a private first look in a scenic spot near your cabin or by the lake. This is a great time for some intimate photos before the ceremony.

3:00 PM – Off-Roading Adventure

• Hop in a 4×4 and explore the rugged terrain of Big Bear, capturing some epic shots while enjoying the thrill of an off-road adventure.

4:30 PM – Vow Exchange

• Head to your elopement location, whether it’s a beautiful lakeside view or a hidden forest trail. We’ll take our time capturing your vows and the special moments after the ceremony.

4:30 PM – Lunch Break

• Grab lunch at a local spot or enjoy a picnic you’ve packed along with you. This is also a great time to take a breather and enjoy the quiet.

5:30 PM –Ride the Scenic Sky Chair

• Head up the mountain on the Scenic Sky Chair for panoramic views of the San Bernardino National Forest. This peaceful ride will give you time to take in the scenery and capture more stunning photos.

6:30 PM – Star/Lantern Photography

• We’ll head to a beautiful overlook or back to the lake for some magical sunset photos as the light softens and the sky starts to change colors.

12-Hour Big Bear Elopement Timeline

10:00 AM – Horseback Riding Tour

• Start your day with a peaceful horseback riding tour through the beautiful mountain trails of Big Bear. This serene activity sets a calm tone for the day ahead and allows you to connect with nature before the big moments.

12:00 PM – Relax and Brunch

• After your horseback ride, enjoy a relaxing brunch at your cabin or a cozy local café. This gives you some downtime to ease into the day.

1:00 PM – Getting Ready

• Begin the getting-ready process in a relaxed environment. I’ll capture candid shots of you preparing for the day, with a focus on the details—your attire, rings, and the quiet moments before the ceremony.

2:30 PM – Canoe on Big Bear Lake

• Take a peaceful canoe ride on Big Bear Lake. Enjoy the calm water and stunning mountain views while I capture fun, natural shots of you two on the lake.

4:00 PM – Off-Roading Adventure

• Take a 4×4 off-roading tour through Big Bear’s rugged backcountry, adding some excitement to your elopement and capturing adventurous shots along the way.

5:30 PM – Snack Break

• After your off-roading adventure, take a short break to enjoy a light snack. Whether it’s something packed from your cabin or a quick stop at a local café, this will give you time to recharge before the evening begins.

6:00 PM – Vow Exchange at Sunset

• As the sun begins to set, exchange your vows in a breathtaking location, whether it’s by the lake or with a view of the mountains. The golden hour light will make this moment even more magical.

6:30 PM – Lantern Photography

• After your vows, we’ll capture stunning photos with lanterns, creating a warm and romantic atmosphere. The soft glow will make for a beautiful and intimate end to your elopement day.

8:00 PM – Dinner with a Private Chef

• Settle in for a private dinner prepared by a chef, either at your cabin or in a scenic outdoor location. This quiet, intimate meal will allow you to relax and savor the day’s moments before your ceremony.

FAQs for Eloping in Big Bear

• Do I need a permit to elope in Big Bear?
  No, as long as you marry on forest land.

• What’s the best time of year for a Big Bear elopement?
  Big Bear is beautiful year-round, but the best time depends on what kind of experience you’re looking for. If you want snow, winter is perfect. For warm weather and hiking, summer is ideal. Fall offers beautiful foliage, and spring brings blooming wildflowers.

• Where can I get my marriage license for a Big Bear elopement?
  The closest County Clerk’s office is located in San Bernardino at 222 West Hospitality Lane. Both of you will need to be present with valid ID to get your marriage license. The license costs around $90 and is valid for 90 days.

• How long will it take to get to Big Bear from Los Angeles?
  It typically takes about 2 hours to drive to Big Bear from Los Angeles, depending on traffic and road conditions. During winter, be sure to check for any snow chain requirements.

• Can I have guests at my elopement in Big Bear?
  Yes, you can invite guests to your elopement. Whether you want a private ceremony for just the two of you or a small gathering of close friends and family, there are plenty of locations in Big Bear that can accommodate different group sizes.

Final Tips for Eloping in Big Bear

1. Bring Layers: No matter the season, the weather can change quickly in the mountains.
2. Snow Chains: If you’re eloping in the winter, don’t forget snow chains for your car.
3. Hydrate: The higher elevation means you’ll get dehydrated faster. Bring plenty of water!
4. Leave No Trace: Keep Big Bear beautiful by packing out everything you bring in, and respecting nature.

Ready to elope in Big Bear? I’d love to help you plan your adventure! Contact me here to start planning your Big Bear Lake elopement today!